Transform Your Dating Mindset: Tips for Attracting Healthy Relationships

Tired of attracting emotionally unavailable partners and second-guessing every interaction? There's a reason for those patterns... and a way to change them.

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Understanding Your Dating Patterns:

Recognize and change patterns that have shaped your past relationships, empowering you to make healthier choices in love.

Cultivating Self-Worth and Confidence:

Embrace your self-worth to attract partners who respect and value you, ensuring your relationships are based on mutual appreciation.

Shifting Your Approach to Dating:

Learn to date with intention, avoiding mindless interactions, and focusing on what truly aligns with your vision of a relationship.

Navigating Challenges in Dating:

Handle rejection, overcome fears, and manage dating fatigue to remain open to love without losing your sense of self.

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Why Clients Refer

Why people refer and how to ask is NOT a battle of wills. Learn to get into the mindset of becoming a referral machine with repeatable success.

Stop Cold Calling

Clients want to and will refer, if you know how to ask. Start meeting people you know and turn them into clients without networking.

100 Referrals in a Week

Escalate your business with 100 referrals in one week. Take control of your diary and explode your business with this proven approach to jump up the ladder.

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Double your client bank, double and quadruple your income. Kick-start your business no matter how big or small with only qualified referrals.

About Me

Hi, I went from earning $12,000 a year as a teacher to 20 years of my teaching salary – MONTHLY!

I mastered the 3 things YOU MUST MASTER to become a Powerhouse in the sales industry:

1. GET REFERRALS FROM YOUR EXISTING CLIENTS every time.

If you can’t do this, you are dead in the water and will waste huge amounts of time in meetings that are unproductive for your business.

2. GET REFERRALS FROM NEW CLIENTS, within the first 2 meetings, every time. If you can’t do this, you are again in for a career of pain and scrabbling around to get new clients and business.

3. The art of the
BEST PRESENTATIONS ARE THE ONES NO-ONE SEES COMING.If you can’t sell insurance, pensions and savings WITHOUT mentioning the dreaded words insurance, pensions, savings and money, you are at a HUGE DISADVANTAGE!

I retired at the age of 38 after 92 months in the industry. If you want to earn what YOU know you are worth, you MUST MASTER these 3 things.

I hated cold calling and never did it, I never networked or trawled social media and NEITHER SHOULD YOU!

Things get better, when YOU get better!

Learn to be G.R.E.T. and GET REFERRALS EVERY TIME, so you can have the success and income you know you are worth and save yourself a lot of Time and Money!

Get Referrals Every Single Time

This, not cold calling or networking is the most cost efficient way to increase your business within days, not months or years. Learn how.

Control Your Life With Ongoing Referrals

Clients will refer you every time you meet, if you know how. Your business will explode if you learn this. No more wasted service meetings.

Get 100 Qualified Referrals in a week

Kickstart or escalate your business with 100 referrals in a week. Take control of your diary and double or quadruple your income with this.

Why Download this Guide?

Attract the Right Partner

With insights into self-worth and confidence, attract partners who are emotionally available and share your values.

Break Unhealthy Patterns

Identify and break free from repeating patterns that hold you back, setting the stage for more positive dating experiences.

Foster Lasting Relationships

Build relationships that endure by understanding the importance of mutual growth, emotional security, and effective communication.

What Clients Are Saying

James P

“When I started working with Brian, I used a cold caller, bought lists, spent time managing the cold caller. I got hardly any referrals, a handful of year, I didn’t know how to ask. Since working with Brian, I earned more in 12 weeks than I did in the previous 12 months. I just had my biggest year ever only to work with referrals, no cold caller needed. We are planning 7 figures in the next 12 months.”

Mark Swann

“I’ve always had problems asking for and getting referrals. Brian showed me how to break through. I get qualified referrals and many clients call them while I am in the meeting. My income has increased dramatically, my confidence is high and I expect qualified referrals every time.”

Julian Unsworth

“I have been working with Brian for just over a week, as a direct result of Brian’s strategies I got referrals from every client meeting the very next week. The impact was immediate”.

Deepti G Gujar

“Coming from the coaching industry, Brian helped me change the whole approach of asking for referrals into a feedback-based one to lead my clients into referring on their own. He helped me realize that asking is an art to be mastered. Thank you Brian!”

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“James crossed the $MILLION ceiling in 2020”

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“1st attempt at referrals, gets over 90”

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What Do You and a Heart Surgeon Have in Common for Your Clients?

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AND DO YOUR CLIENTS KNOW?

What do your clients think of you? Do you know? Have you asked?
How important do YOU think YOU are to your clients?

THE WAY YOU THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU DO IS HAVING A MASSIVE IMPACT ON YOUR INCOME, BUSINESS AND CLIENTS!

What do YOU tell your clients you do?
How important do YOU tell them you are to them?

Let’s say for example, you need heart surgery. You have consultations with several surgeons, after all this is a BIG decision. Get a good one, and you get to live a life in health, get a bad one, you may not be here tomorrow or if you are you may suffer through life.

You interview surgeons and let’s say it goes something like this:

Surgeon 1:

Well, I am Dr. Smith, and I do heart surgery, I am quite good at what I do and have many successes, of course not all survive. I like to think I am good enough to help you, but I will let you know after the surgery what your chances are. I am quite up to date with the latest techniques, so have a good idea of what I will be doing.

Surgeon 2:

Hi, I am Dr. Zack, I am the best surgeon there is in the whole North and Central America. I don’t tell you this to impress you but to impress upon you that I only want to be the best for my patients. I do this because I love it and I love saving lives. I am passionate about what I do, so much so my wife moans that I spend all my time researching the latest techniques and then hours every day practicing and refining so before I get to a patient I am totally confident that barring any unforeseen thing the chances of you surviving are 98.5%. I will do whatever it takes so my clients live with a good quality of life after surgery. If I take your case it is because I have studied every test result and examination you’ve had and I am confident that it will be successful. I know exactly what procedure I am going to do and also the backup plan just in case. Do you have any questions?

Ok, so who do you want to go with?

So what do you tell your clients? Do they know that YOU know you are the best person they will ever meet in this field? Do you tell them, make sure they understand the value to them of working with YOU? Do YOU believe it?

Do they know you care passionately about what you do? That it matters to you?

If you are not sure, ask them next time you meet them. See what they say.

My clients are in no doubt. I tell my clients,

“I am the most important person to you next to an open heart surgeon performing on you at that moment”

I am sure you can imagine the reactions. I then say,

“I know that seems like a heck of a thing to say, however I want to explain why I say this to all my clients, is that ok?”

Of course they want to know why I have made such an outlandish claim.

“Mr. Client, Firstly if you need open heart surgery you will need money, a lot of it, and I will ensure that money is there. And should you survive, I will ensure that you have the right amount of money coming in for you and your family to live well for the rest of your life.

If however, you don’t make it or if you get hit by a drunk driver, I will ensure your wife and children live the life you want now and are planning in the future.

You see, here’s what will happen if and when you die, and the latest stats tell me the ratio of death is one in one, we just don’t know when.

All of your friends will be offering sympathy to your widow, I will be the only person with a cheque book.

Your widow can get a job in McDonald’s at about $3 an hour, I think if she is prepared to put her hand down the toilet to clean it she may get $3.50 an hour. Sympathy and a bus ticket will get you from A to B (pick two towns) and that’s it.

When all your friends say to her at the funeral,“if there is anything I can do please just ask”,what do you think happens when your widow says:

“Thank you, will you put my kids through college?”

“Thank you, will you pay off our mortgage?”

“Thank you, can we come and live with you for the next 17 years till the kids leave college?”

“Thank you, will you buy me a car every 3 years so I have safe transport?”

What do you think they will say? You see Mr. Client they do mean well, but they can’t do anything. I can, that’s why I am the most important person next to a heart surgeon.

You must keep my business card next to your medical card, as after calling the doctor your wife will be calling me. I will be the second person she calls, not your friends, you parents of course, but then me.

Can you see now why I say what I do Mr. Client? I have had a client die, a young couple, 24 and 25, and two young children, she got cancer and died. She was beautiful and popular. I was the person that got that call. In the church there was standing room only OUTSIDE, it was packed to the rafters. I was the ONLY person out of about 500 friends and family that COULD help. I had the cheque book.

The husband retired, never worked again through financial need, spent his following years with his kids until they were grown more. He had choices.

So if we decide to work together, I will ensure your wife or widow and children never rely on sympathy. That is what I do for people Mr. Client and I take my role very seriously.

If you ever need a surgeon you will want the one who says, “I am the best there is and this is why”. As most people do live, don’t you want your clients to know they have the same in our field?

So ensure your clients know that you are the best for them, and ensure you do the best job possible.

Be very clear on what your response will be when YOU get THAT call.

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About: Phillip Quinones

I combine my background in Psychology and Clinical Counseling with heart-centered coaching to help women transform their relationship patterns.

MY MISSION?

Guiding you from frustrating dating cycles to the deep, lasting connection you deserve. 

I specialize in helping women aged 25-45 who are ready to stop settling and start experiencing real love.

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After working with Greg, you’ll have everything you need to:

Make more money in 25 hours a week than most people make in 40

Align who you are with how you earn so you can wake up excited to start work

Become the most focused and effective entrepreneur you know